Your lack of shaving DOES NOT make you anything except unshaven.
You do not look like a boy. There is no way to look like a boy when you are not. Men look like men because they know they’re men and it’s visible.
You are beautiful.
This is important.
It’s like Cara once said to me: “You don’t look cis, but you look like a woman to anyone who’s not an ass.”
Anyone who wants to see you will see you. This is something I’ve learned. And if someone deliberately refuses to see you, and instead only sees their preconceptions, that’s their fault, not yours.
additional emphasis mine.
of special importance regarding trans folks.
i watched more of terra e and mostly what ive learned is jomy’s full name and the fact that he’s 14
i just set it up and it seems to be working
if you’re at the club and someone asks for your number just give them this